Have you ever witnessed the explosive power of a 2-liter soft drink? I have.
A few weeks ago, while getting groceries, I came across 2-liter Cokes on sale for a great price. Since we often have guests in our home, I decided to stock-up.
When I got home, I unloaded the groceries. Apparently, one of the 2-liters had made its way underneath the back seat and I overlooked it. The Coke spent three, long, hot days rolling around behind the driver’s seat. The pressure of the carbonation inside the plastic bottle became far too great to contain.
As I turned the corner into my subdivision I thought for sure someone had opened fire on us. It was like I had driven into a really bad neighborhood in East LA (minus the Snoop Dog music). At first, I thought I to myself, “Did I just wet my pants?” Then I realized it was the Coke that had saturated me! It went all over my son and me, not to mention throughout the interior of the truck.
As I cleaned up the mess, which seemed to take forever, I began making up my own curse words and random phrases. Moments later, I realized that my son was standing right behind me. I was so busted!
My four year-old asked, “Daddy, what’s a freaky-frocky-frookey burger?”
To which I replied, “I don’t know son, it’s something I just made up because I’m mad.”
Then, he took it one step further and asked, “Daddy, what did you mean when you said, ‘got down and sat in the ditch’?”
At that point, I really didn’t know what to say. There’s nothing like a small child’s ability to hold up a mirror and help you see just how ridiculous you appear. Ironically, it seemed the explosion of the Coke had also caused me to explode. And by they way, I’m still cleaning up the mess from both explosions.
A few days later, I was driving somewhere and heard the song, “Under Pressure”, by David Bowie and Queen. I recalled my experience with the exploding 2-liter as I listened to the opening lyrics:
“Umm boom bah day, umm boom bah bay, umm bah boom bah bay day, Pressure, pushing down on me, Pressing down on you, no man asks for, Under Pressure, That burns a building down, Splits a family in two, Puts people on streets…Under pressure”
I love the lyrics of that song. And though it may seem funny, I especially like all the made up words and phrases. It’s almost as if the pressure on the songwriter was so great that no real words could describe it. Therefore, he was forced to make up words; words that make little-to-no sense. Funny, that’ s just what I had done; made up my own senseless words. Just like the 2-liter, when you and I explode, we say and do some crazy things.
Hearing the song by Bowie and Queen caused me to reflect upon the exploding Coke ordeal. I began thinking about what it means to be under pressure. Just like the song says, it’s something we all face, in every area of our lives…work, family, social, financial, etc…
Since we all experience pressure, the question becomes,“What’s the best way to deal with it?” Some of us choose to deal with the stresses of life by avoiding them. The results of practicing avoidance are almost always negative. Like the carbonated drink bouncing around in the back of my truck, over time, life’s pressures begin to take their toll on us. The conditions ripen. Something small rubs us the wrong way and BAM! We explode, leaving a mess of catastrophic proportion that takes forever to clean up.
Another unhealthy way to deal with the pressures of life is through the unique art of “Compartmentalization.” Compartmentalizing is something that I struggle with. As a pastor, I try to remain as even-keeled as I can be. In attempting to do so, I tend to suppress the things that truly bother me. And when I fail to vent or release these things in a safe place, I explode just like the soda in the back of my truck. Unfortunately, others are usually hurt in the process.
So, what’s the best way to deal with pressure? Just like a 2-liter bottle, you’ve got to let it out gradually so it doesn’t explode and make a big mess. There are a lot of different opinions regarding the best way to do this.
Doctors affirm that a routine of proper diet and exercise is one of the most effective methods. If you’re like me, you’ve got some serious work to do in this particular area of your life.
Another method for releasing pressure is to find a hobby or a healthy activity that enables you to relax. In other words, find something to do that provides a sense of release for the stress in your life. And when you find this activity, engage in it on a regular basis. Make time for it as though your life depends upon it. Because it does!
Health experts agree that having fun adds value to your life. The mind and body operate much better when there is a routine release of endorphins that counter the stressors in your life. Lighten up! Laugh a little…or a lot! You’ll be much more fun to be around.
One thing is for sure. When we fail to gradually release the build-up of stress in our lives, the results are not pretty. Just like the 2-liter drink, the pressure inside of us becomes far too great to contain and we explode. And after the explosion, there is a huge mess to clean up.
How are you dealing with the pressures in your life? Or, are you? If you’re not, then what effect is it having on you? And, what effect is it having on the people around you? Don’t wait until its too late. Do something about it today.
Good message bro…thanks for the encouraging words
Wednesday, October 22, 2008 – 05:12 PM
Thanks for the reminder Danny! Good words! For me journaling helps a lot. Dumping my mind late at night and then rephrasing the anxiety into a prayer list. I think this is what many of the Psalms are a record of. In ministry and especially in church planting, I think peer relationships are a must for relieving pressure. This requires transparency and honesty which without humility creates more pressure.
This is definitely a topic those of us in ministry need to be reminded of often. Thanks!
Wednesday, October 22, 2008 – 05:28 PM
This is a great summation of my thoughts. I also make up funny words some
time. Explosions are way tooooo painful for all around us and to us.
Thanks for the insights.
Thursday, October 23, 2008 – 09:53 AM
Reminds me of a story about a map in California. Thankfully the map was not as sticky.
Thursday, October 23, 2008 – 04:19 PM
could be worse……….coulda been a gallon of milk.
you gotta have a little “carbonation in your bottle” in order to make you perform better, push harder, strive higher. one excellent way to releive that pressure in a constructive way is one of those things made of wood with six strands of metal, hole in the middle, and you know make a little noise.
Thursday, October 23, 2008 – 06:37 PM
Good analogy and good advice; Thank you.
Friday, October 24, 2008 – 09:39 AM
Love your writing, Danny. You’re right, I’d love this kind of stuff. Thanks so much for sharing! Off to do some creativity to release some pressure 😉
Friday, October 24, 2008 – 02:20 PM